Whenever a person feels the lack of self-confidence, he becomes easily angry. In fact anger is always an indication that you are not self-confident.http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
A person who is confident about himself is not easily angry. It is very difficult for him to get into anger. It is our weakness that leads us into anger. The stronger you are, the less anger will be there. The strongest person goes beyond anger.
Anger is weakness.
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When You Are Really Confident, Confidence Is Forgotten.
Everybody keeps on repeating to himself: I am confident. Why? What are you hiding? http://goo.gl/Vh3SX If this confidence that you talk about is really there then there is no need to say anything about it.
A really confident man is not even aware of it. This has to be understood whenever something is false you are aware of it, self-conscious.
When something is real, you simply forget it.
Do you remember that you are breathing? If something goes wrong, yes.
If it is hard and there is something wrong with your lungs and you have a cold or asthma, then you remember that you are breathing.
But when everything goes okay, you are not conscious. WHEN THE SHOE FITS, THE FOOT IS FORGOTTEN. When you are really confident, confidence is forgotten.
A really confident man is not even aware of it. This has to be understood whenever something is false you are aware of it, self-conscious.
When something is real, you simply forget it.
Do you remember that you are breathing? If something goes wrong, yes.
If it is hard and there is something wrong with your lungs and you have a cold or asthma, then you remember that you are breathing.
But when everything goes okay, you are not conscious. WHEN THE SHOE FITS, THE FOOT IS FORGOTTEN. When you are really confident, confidence is forgotten.
Self Is Not Needed For Enlightenment.
Self-confidence is not a quality for the inner journey, it is a barrier. In the outer world self-confidence is a help, is a must. http://goo.gl/Vh3SX Without it you cannot go anywhere in the outside world.
But when you move to the inner, all the qualities that are helpful in the outer journey become obstacles.
Self is not needed, self-confidence is not needed. One should completely lose the self, only then is there a possibility of enlightenment.
But when you move to the inner, all the qualities that are helpful in the outer journey become obstacles.
Self is not needed, self-confidence is not needed. One should completely lose the self, only then is there a possibility of enlightenment.
The Ego Is Manufactured.
What do you need self-confidence for? If you are, self-confidence will be like a shadow to you. It will follow you. http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
You dont carry your shadow, you dont look back again and again to see whether it is coming or not, you dont get an insurance for it. You dont care. It follows. Self-confidence is always there when you have become a self.
You are not yet a self, you are just an ego. Remember this difference between the ego and the self.
The self is divine, the ego is human.
The ego is manufactured by education, society, ambition, politics, morality, and all that; the self is not manufactured, it is discovered. The ego is an invention, the self is a discovery.
You dont carry your shadow, you dont look back again and again to see whether it is coming or not, you dont get an insurance for it. You dont care. It follows. Self-confidence is always there when you have become a self.
You are not yet a self, you are just an ego. Remember this difference between the ego and the self.
The self is divine, the ego is human.
The ego is manufactured by education, society, ambition, politics, morality, and all that; the self is not manufactured, it is discovered. The ego is an invention, the self is a discovery.
People Lack Confidence.
People want to be with the crowd because they lack self-confidence. - OSHO.
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Learn To Surf.
"You can't control the waves, but you can learn to surf."
- John Kabat Zinn
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You Can't Trust! You Can't Love, You Can't Pray.
If you love a woman or a man, and you cling, that simply shows that you don't trust. Read Full: http://goo.gl/Vh3SX . If you love a woman / man and you say, 'Tomorrow also, will you love me or not?' you don't trust.
If you go to the court to get married, you don't trust. Then you trust more in the court, in the police, in the law, than in love. You are preparing for tomorrow.
If this woman or this man tries to deceive you tomorrow or leaves you in the ditch, you can get support from the court and the police, and the law will be with you and the whole society will support
you. You are making arrangements, afraid. But if you really love, love is enough, more than enough.
Who bothers about tomorrow? But deep down there is doubt. Even while you think you are in love, doubt continues.
You cannot trust, because trust means losing your controlling to somebody else's hands.
You cannot surrender, you cannot love, you cannot pray.
If you go to the court to get married, you don't trust. Then you trust more in the court, in the police, in the law, than in love. You are preparing for tomorrow.
If this woman or this man tries to deceive you tomorrow or leaves you in the ditch, you can get support from the court and the police, and the law will be with you and the whole society will support
you. You are making arrangements, afraid. But if you really love, love is enough, more than enough.
Who bothers about tomorrow? But deep down there is doubt. Even while you think you are in love, doubt continues.
You cannot trust, because trust means losing your controlling to somebody else's hands.
You cannot surrender, you cannot love, you cannot pray.
Love Can't Be Jealous.
Love cannot be jealous, it is impossible. Love is always trusting, and if something happens that breaks your trust you have to accept it; http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
nothing can be done about it because whatsoever you do will destroy the other. And the not abot Destroying.
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nothing can be done about it because whatsoever you do will destroy the other. And the not abot Destroying.
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If He Goes, There Is No Love And Nothing Can Be Done. Don't Be Jealous.
Life is very short and capacities are very delicate. They can be destroyed, and once damaged there is no possibility of repairing them. http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
When you love a person you trust that he cannot go to anybody.
If he goes, there is no love and nothing can be done. Love brings this understanding. There is no jealousy.
So if jealousy is there, know well there is no love. You/he/she are playing a game, you/he/she are hiding sex behind love. Love is just a painted word, the reality is sex (this is for the above example i.e. If he/she goes to other or become jealous after that and can't be applied everywhere).
When you love a person you trust that he cannot go to anybody.
If he goes, there is no love and nothing can be done. Love brings this understanding. There is no jealousy.
So if jealousy is there, know well there is no love. You/he/she are playing a game, you/he/she are hiding sex behind love. Love is just a painted word, the reality is sex (this is for the above example i.e. If he/she goes to other or become jealous after that and can't be applied everywhere).
Do You Love Somebody? You Will Fail, If You Not Trust.
On the path of love, trust is the most essential thing. On the path of meditation, you can move without trust. http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
On the path of meditation you can move without surrender, but on the path of love, without surrender, without trust, there is no go because it is the very first door.
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On the path of meditation you can move without surrender, but on the path of love, without surrender, without trust, there is no go because it is the very first door.
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Do You Love Her/Him Or Trust ?
Trust is certainly a higher value than love. In trust, love is implied; but in love, trust is not implied. Read More http://goo.gl/Vh3SX .
When you say, "I trust in you" it is
understood that you love. But when you say "I love you", trust has nothing to do with it.
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When you say, "I trust in you" it is
understood that you love. But when you say "I love you", trust has nothing to do with it.
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Are You Total Or Perfect ?
Totality is possible, perfection is not possible. That is the fundamental of the holistic approach. To Join free SMS: ON NATURESLAW to 9870807070.
And there is a tremendous difference between perfection and totality. Both are not same.
Perfection is a goal somewhere in the future, totality is an experience herenow. Totality is not a goal, it is a style of life.
If you can get into any act with your whole heart, you are total. Totality brings wholeness and totality brings health and totality brings sanity. Be total, no need to be perfect.
And there is a tremendous difference between perfection and totality. Both are not same.
Perfection is a goal somewhere in the future, totality is an experience herenow. Totality is not a goal, it is a style of life.
If you can get into any act with your whole heart, you are total. Totality brings wholeness and totality brings health and totality brings sanity. Be total, no need to be perfect.
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